Family Law Mediation

What Is Family Mediation?

Family mediation is a process where a neutral mediator helps parents or family members work through disagreements and reach agreements on issues like parenting plans, time-sharing schedules, child support, alimony, and property division.

The mediator doesn’t make decisions for you. Instead, I facilitate conversation, help clarify interests, explore options, and guide the process toward solutions that work for your family.

Common Family Mediation Topics

• Parenting plans and time-sharing schedules
• Child support calculations and modifications
• Spousal support (alimony)
• Division of marital property and debts
• Modification of existing orders
• Relocation requests
• Post-judgment disputes

Who Can Benefit?

Family mediation is helpful for:

• Parents creating or modifying parenting plans
• Divorcing couples working through asset division and support
• Pro-se litigants navigating the court process without attorneys
• Parties with attorneys looking for a faster, less adversarial resolution
• Post-judgment disputes where circumstances have changed

The Family Mediation Process

Before the Session

Once you schedule, you’ll receive:

• Zoom joining instructions
• A preparation checklist (what to gather, what to think about)
• Information about confidentiality and the voluntary nature of mediation
• Any required forms or intake documents

During the Session

Sessions typically last 2-4 hours, though complex cases may take longer or require multiple sessions. Here’s what to expect:

1. Opening: I explain the process, confidentiality, and ground rules
2. Discussion: Each party shares their perspective and priorities
3. Exploration: We identify issues, clarify interests, and explore options
4. Negotiation: Parties work toward agreements that meet their needs
5. Drafting (if needed): I can prepare a summary or memorandum of agreement

You can have your attorney present (in the Zoom call or in person with you). If you don’t have an attorney, I encourage you to consult one before finalizing any agreement.

After the Session

If you reach an agreement:

• I provide a written summary or memorandum
• You and your attorney review the terms
• Your attorney prepares the necessary court documents
• The agreement is submitted to the court for approval

If you don’t reach full agreement:

• Partial agreements are still valuable and can be documented
• You can schedule another session to continue discussions
• You return to the court process with any unresolved issues

Preparing for Family Mediation

To make the most of your session:

• Gather documents: Financial affidavits, tax returns, pay stubs, account statements, parenting schedules
• Think about priorities: What matters most to you? What are your non-negotiables?
• Consider your children’s needs: How can you support their wellbeing and stability?
• Be ready to listen: Mediation works best when both parties come ready to hear each other
• Consult your attorney: If you have one, discuss your goals and boundaries before the session

Is Family Mediation Required in Florida?

In many Florida counties, mediation is required before a final hearing in family law cases. Even when it’s not required, many parties choose mediation because it’s:

• Faster than waiting for a trial date
• Less expensive than prolonged litigation
• More flexible than a court order
• Confidential and less adversarial
• Empowering because you control the outcome

Mediation for Pro-Se Parties

If you’re representing yourself, mediation can be especially helpful. I explain the process clearly, make sure you understand your options, and create a space where you can negotiate on equal footing.

That said, mediation is not a substitute for legal advice. I cannot tell you what to do or what’s “fair.” I strongly encourage pro-se parties to consult with an attorney before finalizing any agreement, even if you don’t have representation throughout the case.

Cost & Scheduling

For information about fees and scheduling, please contact me or use the scheduling calendar to book a consultation where we can discuss your specific needs.